It takes a thief...
....to piss me the hell off! Didn't get that? Read the title of the blog. Anyhoo, why pissed off? Well this morning I was in bed I was warm and snug and happy because I knew I had the day off. It was about 6:30am or so. My husband said goodbye to me and left for work. I herd the door shut and then herd the lock click, I rolled over and got comfey. Suddenly the locked clicked open and my husband came bursting through the door. "Its happened again!" he shouted. I sat up and immediantly thought that the car had been broken into AGAIN! But no, some assface had broken into our storage above the car and had taken 3 tool boxes 4 decent tires, a saw, 2 car jacks and some ramps we use to drive the car up on when it gets worked on underneath. I couldn't believe it, this is the 3rd time we have been robbed and the cops and appartment managers all say the same thing. "Oh well." Its irritating that we have no coverage if something happens to us on this property. But I'm also wondering, shouldn't the appartment complex management have some sort of insurance for this kind of thing? The thieves are just getting away scott free with what ever they want. Luckily for us they didn't get all the nice tools. The jacks and the saw were the most important. The officer we talked with suggested that we go down to the local swap meet and see if we can find our stuff." He also said as a matter of factly, "Don't get your hopes up, but we get called down there alot because people find their stolen goods."
Well my husband plans on going early morning on Saturday when it opens and wants to walk all around, he etched his name in alot of stuff, so if its there he will find it. I hope he does, I can't go because I would get violent with the th
ief if we stumbled upon our stuff. Then I would get arrested for breaking knee caps. So just minutes after talking to the officer and having a chat with the management here my husband went to Home Depot and bought some 2x4's and a large sheet of plywood. We emptied out our storage just outside our front door and he built shelves in side it. It looks awesome! Heres a picture of the shelves in the making. I don't know if you can tell but thats not my husbands real face, his is a bit more white.
We emptied out what was left in the carport storage and put it in a safer place, right outside our front door.
Think evil thoughts of the thief or thieves. I hate them all!
Lillys rating: California still sucks!
Where my friends at?
So, I miss my friends, one is blinded by love, and the other I haven't spoken to in almost 2 years. Annie as you all know is the one blind by love. Her fiance' is a terrible man and she just doesn't see that. So its hard to talk to her because all we ever talk about is her man. Then we start to bicker because I don't like him. *Sigh* Then theres my friend Gretchen whom I haven't spoken to in almost 2 years.
We stop talking to eachother just after I went back home for a vacation. I'm not sure why it happened but she was getting mad at me because I wasn't spending more time with her. I only had one week to see all of my family and get out and do what I wanted to. But she figured the trip was suppose to be about her or something. So after a few phone calls and some emails I stopped talking to her. Recently I was sitting at the computer dinkin around, I started to think of her, we had so much fun hanging out and talking on the phone.
I decided it was time to email her and let her know that what ever we were fighting about that it was in the past and that I missed her so much.
I told her that even if she didn't want to be my friend anymore that she would at least let me know she was doing ok.
My hopes weren't high but I sent off the email. The next day I got one back, she told me that dispite getting diabeties she was doing well. She told me about things that were going on and what not. She never mentioned that she missed me or that she was glad I emailed her. But she did come across like she wanted to be friends again. I was excited, and emailed her back telling her I'm glad she was doing ok and I missed her and I was so happy this and that.
No emails from her for a few days, so seeming quite despirate I emailed her again, it was short but I basicaly asked what was going on. I got an email back she said she would write me back but she had to take someone to the airport. Its been a few days and she hasn't gotten back to me.
I feel like a dork trying so hard to get my friend back but its hard not having anyone where I live. I miss going out and doing fun things like going bowling then going to dennys and talking untill the early morning. Or going to a movie and buying loads of candy at half the price at some other store and sneaking it in.
My husband is a good man, treats me well and I love him alot but he never wants to take my anywhere. I'v lived in San Diego for 3 years and I'v never even been to the zoo, or a museum. I love those kinds of places. *Shrug*
So, I'm not sure what to do, drop both of them and just move on? Then again I have no friends here so that sucks too. A little advice from someone would be nice.
Lillys rating: Oh geeze.
Feelin unappreciated
Tonight I cleaned the kitchen, thats not odd. But I started cleaning it at about 1:30 in the morning. Its 2:25am now I just got done. I was in the middle of scrubbing the stove when I realized how much I'v been doing lately and not getting appreciated for it. No doubt when you do something for a man he thinks a magic fairy poofed everything nice. I'm sure when my husband wakes up in the morning and sees the kitchen hes going to scratch his head and just think "Oh looks good." Theres even a teeny tiny possability that before he leaves for work he will tell me it looks good. Who knows.
Another thing I thought of was at work. Theres a pregnaunt woman I work with who like me, basicaly has no one around to help her. I found out that shes not all prepared to have her baby so I thought it would be nice to get her some baby clothes, diapers, some of those baby suckie thingies, binkies?? Also so blankets. It cost me $60. Now some people would think $60 isn't much but in my case its alot of money. I barely know her but thought it would be a nice thing to do. Before I could give her the stuff she went on maternity leave. I ran into her a day later and told her that I had some stuff for her to have. She told me she was going to be in 3 days later to pick them up. She never showed up. Its been a few weeks now and she still hasn't called or showed up. I feel kinda taken. For someone that complains alot that there is no one out there to help she doesn't take advantage of those willing. I can easily take everything back but I'm reluctant to.
My husband told me I was too nice. I think hes right, but there are too many rude and stuck up people already. They don't need another. The last nice thing that I can recall any one doing something nice for me was on Valentines Day. But that was a required thing, especially for a husband. For once I would like someone to do something nice for me out of the blue. Say "Thank you Lilly that looks nice, or thanks for your help." I hope what I'm saying makes sense or I'm at least getting my point across. I have all the answers in my head but can't release them correctly on the computer. If I had a friend here maybe things would be different, I would have someone to talk to face to face.
Lillys rating: Lonely in California the state of wankers.
....to piss me the hell off! Didn't get that? Read the title of the blog. Anyhoo, why pissed off? Well this morning I was in bed I was warm and snug and happy because I knew I had the day off. It was about 6:30am or so. My husband said goodbye to me and left for work. I herd the door shut and then herd the lock click, I rolled over and got comfey. Suddenly the locked clicked open and my husband came bursting through the door. "Its happened again!" he shouted. I sat up and immediantly thought that the car had been broken into AGAIN! But no, some assface had broken into our storage above the car and had taken 3 tool boxes 4 decent tires, a saw, 2 car jacks and some ramps we use to drive the car up on when it gets worked on underneath. I couldn't believe it, this is the 3rd time we have been robbed and the cops and appartment managers all say the same thing. "Oh well." Its irritating that we have no coverage if something happens to us on this property. But I'm also wondering, shouldn't the appartment complex management have some sort of insurance for this kind of thing? The thieves are just getting away scott free with what ever they want. Luckily for us they didn't get all the nice tools. The jacks and the saw were the most important. The officer we talked with suggested that we go down to the local swap meet and see if we can find our stuff." He also said as a matter of factly, "Don't get your hopes up, but we get called down there alot because people find their stolen goods."
ief if we stumbled upon our stuff. Then I would get arrested for breaking knee caps. So just minutes after talking to the officer and having a chat with the management here my husband went to Home Depot and bought some 2x4's and a large sheet of plywood. We emptied out our storage just outside our front door and he built shelves in side it. It looks awesome! Heres a picture of the shelves in the making. I don't know if you can tell but thats not my husbands real face, his is a bit more white.
