Where my friends at?

So, I miss my friends, one is blinded by love, and the other I haven't spoken to in almost 2 years. Annie as you all know is the one blind by love. Her fiance' is a terrible man and she just doesn't see that. So its hard to talk to her because all we ever talk about is her man. Then we start to bicker because I don't like him. *Sigh* Then theres my friend Gretchen whom I haven't spoken to in almost 2 years.
We stop talking to eachother just after I went back home for a vacation. I'm not sure why it happened but she was getting mad at me because I wasn't spending more time with her. I only had one week to see all of my family and get out and do what I wanted to. But she figured the trip was suppose to be about her or something. So after a few phone calls and some emails I stopped talking to her. Recently I was sitting at the computer dinkin around, I started to think of her, we had so much fun hanging out and talking on the phone.
I decided it was time to email her and let her know that what ever we were fighting about that it was in the past and that I missed her so much.
I told her that even if she didn't want to be my friend anymore that she would at least let me know she was doing ok.
My hopes weren't high but I sent off the email. The next day I got one back, she told me that dispite getting diabeties she was doing well. She told me about things that were going on and what not. She never mentioned that she missed me or that she was glad I emailed her. But she did come across like she wanted to be friends again. I was excited, and emailed her back telling her I'm glad she was doing ok and I missed her and I was so happy this and that.
No emails from her for a few days, so seeming quite despirate I emailed her again, it was short but I basicaly asked what was going on. I got an email back she said she would write me back but she had to take someone to the airport. Its been a few days and she hasn't gotten back to me.
I feel like a dork trying so hard to get my friend back but its hard not having anyone where I live. I miss going out and doing fun things like going bowling then going to dennys and talking untill the early morning. Or going to a movie and buying loads of candy at half the price at some other store and sneaking it in.
My husband is a good man, treats me well and I love him alot but he never wants to take my anywhere. I'v lived in San Diego for 3 years and I'v never even been to the zoo, or a museum. I love those kinds of places. *Shrug*
So, I'm not sure what to do, drop both of them and just move on? Then again I have no friends here so that sucks too. A little advice from someone would be nice.
Lillys rating: Oh geeze.